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Dr. Christina Stai

Understanding Adoption & Foster Care

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Every story is unique—and every child deserves to feel safe, seen, and supported.

At Holistic Resources Clinic, we recognize that adoption and foster care journeys are often filled with both love and loss. While families formed through adoption and foster care can thrive, they also face unique emotional and relational challenges—especially when trauma, grief, or disrupted attachment are part of the story.

Understanding Adoption & Foster Care

Emotional Impact of Adoption & Foster Care

Children and teens who have experienced foster care, adoption, or early separation may carry emotional wounds that aren’t always visible. These can include:

  • Trust and attachment difficulties

  • Fear of abandonment or rejection

  • Anxiety, depression, or mood swings

  • Identity confusion or self-worth challenges

  • Behavioral outbursts or withdrawal

  • Trauma responses related to early experiences

Even in loving, stable homes, children may struggle with feelings they can’t fully explain. These responses are not signs of failure—they’re signs of a nervous system still trying to feel safe.

How Therapy Can Help In Adoption & Foster Care

Dr. Stai uses trauma-informed, attachment-focused therapy to support children, teens, and parents throughout the adoption or foster journey. Therapy can help:

  • Strengthen attachment and emotional connection

  • Process grief, loss, or early trauma

  • Improve communication and family dynamics

  • Build emotional regulation skills

  • Support identity exploration and self-worth

  • Empower caregivers with tools for support

Each family’s needs are different. We meet you where you are—with patience, empathy, and expertise.

A Safe Space for Healing

Whether you’re a foster parent, adoptive parent, or an adoptee yourself, our goal is to create a space where emotions can be unpacked and healing can begin. You are not alone—and you don’t have to carry it all by yourself.

Ready to Talk?

If adoption or foster care is part of your story and you’re seeking support, we’re here to walk with you every step of the way.